I found the Tom OCarroll site particularly intersting reading. But the one thing I keep asking myself is, "Why am I reading this?". Or better still, "Why do we read this?". Why? Are we trying to justify the idea of having sex with boys? Or is it just a way to become even more frustrated with life?

Is our society ever going to accept a sexual relationship between an adult and a child? I doubt it. Without society's acceptance and approval, we cannot even safely dream of having a sexual relationship with a boy. So why frustrate yourself with this kind of reading?

Well, in the case of Tom OCarroll, it IS interesting to read about the life of another BL. And I found his writting to be both fresh and intelegent. I loved reading it, actually. But I am still a commited celebate and probably always will be. For me, it makes life easier to define.

Chris