Hi Cat,

I don't really have any thoughts on the "sharing" thing. But, if you don't mind me commenting, I've got some thoughts on the starting presupposition:

Though I am still trying to work out my own position on the issue, and don't claim to have any clear answers, I am starting to see it as follows: If what we are fantasizing about is something that, were it to be done in real life, it would be good and holy ... then I'd say the fantasy itself would also be good and holy. But, if the real life action would not be good and holy, neither would the fantasy. On that basis, I'd have serious doubts about fantasies involving sex with boys. Do you believe that having sex with boys (in real life) is something of which God approves?

Just my thoughts.

Blessings,
Rainboy