You say tomato, I say tomatoe.

It's all the same. The end result is that having a relationship with a child is against the law. The peadophile has a desire to be with a child sexually, and that is pretty much the end of it. A boylover wants the relationship. It's against the law. Sooo... with that being said. I think that man/boy relationships are harmful to both the man and boy because of the chaos that follows the relationship. After the child has a loving relationship, then is told that what they are feeling is wrong! The message you send out is that relationships are wrong and the child suffers for it.

Just my opinion.