"If we, along with Biblical scholars, see that certain things were more for people of that time for various reasons, ok."

Not everyone agrees with when things are relevant for us today or not. That is my main issue. You personally need to decide what is relevant to you today and what is not. Which things that the Bible says is a sin and which are not, really. It is easy to see how you may reach a different conclusion from me or someone else.

There are many many things the Bible says we should not do that we now think is moral like not having slavery or stoning people anymore. Now people say the Bible says homosexuality is wrong and that is true.

I have my own criteria. Do you have one? If so, what?

Gs