Are you trying to say that you are against adult/child sex because of the emotional distress and "chaos" that follows it?

If so, I think that most people here would agree with you, although, at least for me, that's not the main reason for being agaisnt it.

It sounds as if you are saying that ALL sexual encounters with children end up scarring the child due to people telling that child afterwards that it is wrong. Which is true, except for the ALL part.

I think that most people here would agree with what you are saying, that boys can be emotionally hurt by whoever it is that condemns the "loving encounter" that the boy had. And especially because of all the spastic parents out there that freak out. Surely there would be many boys who would have very enjoyable sexual relationships from a loving partner and be perfectly fine if it wasn't for all the hysteria. Having said that, I also don't believe that this could be true for just any boy. I think some boys would be "emotionally scarred" just from the encounter, even if he was willing (even though it probably would be just because of what he had been taught and thus the guilty feelings of doing something bad).

My opinion: none of the above really matters. Because the boy being emotionally scarred afterwards isn't the reason that I don't participate in sexual realtionships with boys. The bible, to me, clearly states that scuh relationships are forbidden. And that is sufficient enough for me.