perhaps his early sexual relationship with a man came about because he was a boylover.

I speculate that a boylover willing to engage sexually with a child and seeking it out must find many boys who are unwilling or uninterested... then he finds one who is... who relishes it.... this boy grows up to be a BL himself. Did the experience make him a BL or did he participte because he already was one... unlike the others who said, "no thanks".

Just speculation, but I've simply encountered too many BLs with no man/boy sexual history from their childhoods to believe as I used to that boys are turned into BLs by early sexualisation.

Blessings
Cat.