Dear all,

I am a newcomer here, but very early into it
I do have a very important question
This question does not only affect myself
but also the life of a boy
his parents, his life.

And also the life of another person
who is dealing with the boy in an inappropriate way.

So here it goes.

I got an email recently from the only one I know in real life
who is a boylover.
In this email he invited me to join
a peer to peer sharing network called Gigatribe.

Because he wanted me to show something
which might be of interest for me.
He knows me, my family, my son.
I neither dealt with my son in a way which is not in line with my conscience,
nor with another boy and neither did my friend.

My friend has gotten an account there for legal material
(music and movies)
but he stumbled upon something he wanted me to see
and because he knows my family and my love for my son.
(my son is 20 years now)
So he sent three videos to me.

I did not want them first
But he told me he has a point.
It would be not without reason.
I trust this guy (I know him for a long time, since school, we went in the same class)
So I accepted.
Sending vids or pics is encrypted.
And I immideatly converted them into files which are readable by normal DVD
destroyed and threw away my hard disc drive
and set my computer up again from scratch.

And I watched the videos,
and without a need for him telling me why he has insisted
of me watching them
I knew what his point was.

to be continued