My main point was that I believe some blers are so adamant about sex with kids being beneficial to them is because they themselves want it so badly.

I don't have the time right now to look into the studies or the book you mentioned. I hope to be able to check them out later. But it will be purely out of curiousity since I believe it to be a moot point. Right or wrong, society is what it is and shows no signs of changing anytime soon. So if the sex doesn't harm kids, society's reaction to it surely will.

Dakota