i had to read your post a few times
you believe being a boylover is a form of homosexuality?
and that there are many homosexuals who may also be boylovers
but would never call themselves anything more than homosexual
since it's a more acceptable label?
younger people who are boylovers believe themselves to be homosexuals
because there's less a difference in age, right?
and the older boylovers cannot help but see themselves as pedophiles
because the age difference is very evident
and probably because they have a stronger attraction for much younger people of the same sex, right?
this is how i read your post
i'm surprised more people haven't responded
i'd like to know if others here agree with some of this
and i wonder if some of you who have loved boys who are now men,
do you still have some of the same attractions for them as you did when they were boys?
if so, do you label yourself more a homesexual or more as a boylover?

thanks