Actually, I never said I retain heterosexual feelings for my wife, since I have never been married. :) I do have, and have always had, heterosexual feelings for women my own age. I thought this was strange also, till I discovered that it is quite common. I can't site any particular studies, but I have read from many different reputable sources that many, perhaps most, boyloving pedophiles are not gay.

I don't agree with the "evolving" from boylover to homosexual theory. Most churches accept homosexuals, but still shun boylovers, so where is the advantage? And there are tons of non Christian boylovers that would find life much easier to be simply gay.

Dakota