Godspell, this advice is well-taken but not, well, easily-taken.

The things you've brought up are quite frightening.

It's difficult to be "in hiding" because people are always wondering.

For Cat - I guess you can empathize with my attitude, but I have only recently come out to myself as a BL, so I can only express myself from a place of "innocence," if that makes sense.

Thanks for your welcoming into this community.




Soapbox