I DO understand the desire to tell others about myself being a BL, I've been very tempted to do it many times myself. As I've said here and other places my least favorite thing about being a BL is having to lie and deceive people. Everyone here has been where you are now, wanting someone to talk to, someone you can be honest with. Like Cat said do that here. Don't give personally identifying details or admit to any illegal activity and you can say pretty much anything here.

Wait a few years of being open with yourself and learning more information before you even consider outing yourself to anyone.