Hi Eldad,

I don't have any theological objection to any of the above per se... but on the practical side there is a question: HOW!?

Sure Jesus and Paul managed celibacy and sure that might be the ideal, but... how?

Paul said, "it's better to be single like I am... but it's better to marry than to burn with passion" 1 Corinthians 7.

So what are SSA people supposed to do if they are trying to be celibate but finding the burning overwhelming? What are their options?

I think the Christian community doesn't seem to talk about that, and I'm wondering do they even have answers?

Sure the talk about having intimate friendships/relationship is there (which is great), but how do SSA peeps deal with their burning sexual feels?

Blessings
Cat.