Re: My basic problem is...
Submitted by Blackstone on 2008-04-17 02:36:21, Thursday
In reply to Re: My basic problem is... submitted by Robert-I on 2008-04-17 00:15:41, Thursday
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I think the key to it is anal sex done from behind... there is some blurring between the sexes in that act, especially when the malakos is a younger person. That's possible. It's certainly something that someone in a situation like Cat's might want to explore. But I wouldn't call it a foregone conclusion. Domination may also help... This is only a component of sexual assault type cases and doesn't reflect the quid pro quo sexuality that is also rampant in prisons and similar situations. I don't see why it would help. But there's nothing wrong with trying. Cat's wife would in no way be able to ask him not to think of a boy if he went this route. I'm not so sure of that. Have you ever known someone who spent time in maximum security? I have. While I don't know what was going through his head when this occured, I have had heard an otherwise undeniably straight individual comment in all seriousness on how he would like to f___ such and such (another man). I have no doubt that he is still primarily heterosexual. But I am led to believe he developed a secondary sexual attraction while in prison. If he did get his wish, would he proceed to fantasize about a woman while doing it? I don't know. But the fact he was already fantasizing about a man makes me doubt it. Of course that's not a very reliable sample. But other than vague recollections about some studies, it's all I have to go on. |
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