Re: Somebody asked for biblical advice.
Submitted by zxc on 2007-01-24 06:44:19, Wednesday
In reply to Somebody asked for biblical advice. submitted by Cat on 2007-01-23 15:44:35, Tuesday
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I think you are just not wrong loving boys, but its a delicate social matter that you need special smart vision for to be able to get rid of all the side effects. Example: if you were convinced that loving boys is ok or just for a few people, developing it further, like you also have only a few people who are in a real top position leading big companies. Making a lot of money. Also a delicate social matter. I feel this is not an example but true. What if you could find a way in reenforcing the core problem in the basicly safe and good position you have as far as I can tell by what you write. efeze 6:12 ....12 For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. 13 Therefore, put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and, having done all, to stand. 14 Stand therefore, having the utility belt of truth buckle.... Mentioning this evil force now I hope you can take such a thing objective as a simple resistance, like in digging a mine. Solved by just work, knowing what you are doing (a good vision on things) and patience getting the metal/rocks out. Like in luke 17:6 6 The Lord said, “If you had faith like a grain of mustard seed, you would tell this sycamore tree, ‘Be uprooted, and be planted in the sea,’ and it would obey you. marc 4:30 30 He said, “How will we liken the Kingdom of God? Or with what parable will we illustrate it? 31 It’s like a grain of mustard seed, which, when it is sown in the earth, though it is less than all the seeds that are on the earth, 32 yet when it is sown, grows up, and becomes greater than all the herbs, and puts out great branches, so that the birds of the sky can lodge under its shadow Srange, maybe but in "do not separate what God has joined together" I also have no other prayerresult in understanding this text as "do not join again what God has separated". "Unless He joines it again" (I do not mean this in some strange way but socially and logical events just like when people get married in the first place, but with a clear and understanding conscience toward God and other christians/people because it is well and clearly sorted out towards all parties including or above all yourself). I personally like being married. But my question to the Lord is, or His answer: "lord, how am I going to be satisfied with just one woman in my life"? In a business manner I can understand, apparently God made mankind twofold like in a man is really one flesh or can be with a partner, just one. But sexually? Not possible. Though all things are possible for the Lord. (and he who believes). I really think she will feel the same way as I in time towards me. galatians 3:28 28 There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus. Remains: business. Which is business. Actually I'm 30 yrs old and I feel related to thimotius. I'm not married but that is the plan. But before I will do that the Lord has tought me to just agree on this sort of thing with her. proverbs 19:14 You may inherit all you own from your parents, but a sensible wife is a gift from the Lord. And if I think any further a family offers a very safe position: towards other christians. I mean whatever good thing God gives you is only in a limited way (not more than you can carry) business of other christians. With a partner I will also have the strong social position which I noted is just not there with a lot of christians who struggle with sexual problems. While as I understand the Lord has no objection towards fulfilling a need. He does with people who live in the illusion that they do not like women. I have talked with non-christian homosexuals. Their not-woman thing came down to that they could not "get it up" a nice girl everyone naked putting her arms around him. Sorry, this is not how He created things, why God is in basis against this sort of thing because if you think about it intelligible someone like that is in some sort of delusion. In the above mentioned luke 17:6 and marc 4:30 the problem is solved. Or in more common understandable language: james 5:7 7 My friends, be patient until the Lord returns. Think of farmers who wait patiently for the spring and summer rains to make their valuable crops grow. 8 Be patient like those farmers and don't give up. The Lord will soon be here! Further explained: it works like this in all things, a business, building a house, etc. This is how the Lord made all things and for us to understand and live by if we want to make things work. So in practice towards a wife it would be nothing but the right woman, patience, the right view in life etc. Planting everything possible like prayer, going to the right places to get what you really want, time etc. Whatever people choose I'm sure that it can mean the end of a homosexuality or pedosxty and having normal human feelings just does not have to go under either of them. Hope to have given some valuable view on the matter, which I myself just recently worked out to a stable and safe basis. But I don't have complete overview and routine in putting it to practice. Though I feel socially and sexually safe enough. |
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