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That was the most incoherant thing I have ever read by what I am guessing is an adult. I hope that you are not a native speaker of English because if you are this is just sad. I cannot see a coherant argument in this whole post or any kind or realistic solution for Cat other than be faithful to his wife. "illusion that they do not like women...." Illusion? wtf? I have been a pedophile my whole life and not a single one of the hundrreds of other peds I have ever met have been able to actually change their attraction unless they were orignally attracted to adults and children. "Their not-woman thing came down to that they could not "get it up" a nice girl everyone naked putting her arms around him." So you are saying that heterosexual men, Christian or not, will not get an erection when a naked woman puts her arms around him? Are you saying that a man not at all being attracted to his wife would not be a major problem in a marriage? We'd probably agree on that but what is your solution? "Whatever people choose I'm sure that it can mean the end of a homosexuality or pedosxty and having normal human feelings just does not have to go under either of them." So whatever we chooseit will mean the end of non heterosexual feelings. whoo sounds so easy. "I personally like being married." Good I'm glad you enjoy being married. Are you also not a heterosexual like most of us here? Is that a struggle in your marriage (I assume to a woman)? When you can be kind to other posters or be coherant it will be nice. If I had more time my response would be longer and more complete but when you respond we can go from there. Spiff out