With regard to the subject of attraction to children, I guess the "other side of the coin" is a lack (partial or total) of attraction toward adults.

I thought it would be appropriate, on Valentine's Day, to start a thread on the subject of adult attractions. Would anyone care to share a "what worked for me" story? (or conversely, a story about what you thought would help, but didn't?) For example, has anyone found it helpful to date adults who are boylovers themselves?