Christian BoyLove Forum #65671
No one is promoting deception at all, let alone self-deception.
No one is promoting lying.
No one is promoting a lifestyle of fear.
I live a full, fulfilling, and happy life. I do not live in fear. Nor do I spout off my sexual orientation willy nilly. Choosing discretion when it comes to what you do and do not say is not only a good idea, it is backed by scripture:
Proverbs 21:23 ESV
Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble.
Proverbs 13:3 ESV
Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life; he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.
I don't make my sexual interests public knowledge any more than anyone else does. It's rarely anyone's business.