Christian BoyLove Forum #63991
My friend Peter, who died of cancer about 10 years ago, once taught me the difference between love and sex. He demonstrated this by first kissing me on the lips - saying that's sex - and then kissing me on the forehead - saying that's love.
Yeah, you're right. Sex isn't necessary to love someone. But I think there's a case for sex being one way in which we can express our love for someone.
I really dont know what advice I could give regarding the question of identity. We are who we are, I guess.