with what you have said.

There are reasons to be against having sex with boys such as the harm to both you and the boy if found out (among others) but just because you decide not do it that does not make it immoral. Just because something is illegal that does not make it immoral or the opposite.

I am not encouraging anyone to break the law, I don't think anyone should for the reason I mention above. As blackstone said later in this thread sex is one of many things a AF can do with a yf to strengthen the relationship and it is one of them that can end badly even if it is immoral. I think people need to make their own decisions on what they think is moral or not and do their best to stay within the laws as well.

Gs