I am already well known to be non-heterosexual, so I don't have to keep that from my young friend. He doesn't care anyways, he's proud not to be prejudiced. As for me having stars in my eyes for him, I don't bother him with that knowledge, I just treat him very well. He doesn't discuss his (str8) sexuality with me and I don't discuss mine with him, at least not at the level of sex (social type issues, rarely).

If he ever asked, I wouldn't be able to lie to him, but the truth would very soft pedaled, I think.