We are pedophiles (or whatever term you want to use to make yourself feel better). We are sexually, emotionally, and in every other way possible attracted to minors, in the case of people here boys. That is the only way we are different from everyone else.

Just like everyone else we are sexual. Some people, BLs or non, have a higher sex drive or lower. Having sexual attractions is not a bad thing. Oh woe oh woe is me! Being a BL is not inherently sinful or bad and thinking about boys sexually is not either. marc, RELAX. The level of self hate here is overwhelming at times.

Just because you have less mental inhibition about not doing sexual things DOES NOT mean you will do them. The stereotype that we have less self control and a more crazy sex drive than others is not true. You still control your own actions.

If you are really letting your sexuality become too much of your life, then as Dakota said do other things. Some very basic things can help a person feel better in general that many people overlook: exercise, plenty of sleep, good healthy food, and time outside. Try doing those things. If you want to email with people it would be helpful if you posted yours.