I find my AOA creeping in odd directions as I get older... and I don't like it one bit. But I think that we really can't help who we are attracted to and that at the end of the day it doesn't really matter who we find hot or not... what matters is what we choose to do.

I think I have tended to tie my identity into my AOA and I am learning that this is not healthy. I have given myself room to be attracted to a range of people and not let it rock my idea of who I am fundamentally.

The only propble that comes with being attracted to older guys is that the temptaion becomes "legal" and that in itself can be one less barrier to doing something you don't want to do.

You're in my prayers as ever bro.

Blessings
Cat.