I dont know about the rest of you but I have great difficulties acting mature and and still have a lot of the same mentality and an intrests in activities as I did during my youth such as skating, and playing video games all day and just having a fun time without paying attention to the boring adult world. I couldnt grow up if my life depended on it and I actualy literally feel like I am a kid trapped in an adults body in every sense, so maybe I have deeper pschological issues behind all this which Im not sure if it is the case with other BL's ?

That's not necessarily a characteristic of BLs; it is actually very common in society in general. The term for this kind of individual, as coined by Chrisopher Noxon is a "Rejuvenile", and they are an already large and still growing breed of adults. A lot of the people I know are very childish in many ways. Even though many of them are married and have their own family, they still get all excited about the latest video games, comic books, etc. I'm probably one of the more mature people I know, and I'm the one who is into boys.

Some scientists have suggested through research that...

Yes, pedophilia probably has a genetic component as well as an environmental one. So what?