Thanks to everyone for being so kind enough to offer advice...

Reading through everyones comments I was suprised at how well informed all of you are but at the same time it is such an unfair and tragic situation that all of you have had to go to such lengths just to feel safe some time or another in your lives when the rest of society dont have to worry about such things.

I was hoping that maybe I was over reacting but it seems it is somewhat necessary, even for those of us who refrain from illegal activities. I cant imagine another scenario in this day and age where a human being can still be judged so harshly for simply being who they are even without acting in any sinister way. It seems only BL face this type of codemnation to this extent by such a massive part of society ?

Saint Augustine I felt you had some very wise words and I appreciated the comment about not being a "retarded dumb fuck who just goes out and does what he feels like doing" as you too seem to have a deeper understanding of life..

I guess my initial question was very general as there is so much I am unure off, some of these you guys have answered, but ...for this instance I want to be a bit more specific and ask although this may seem like a stupid question... lets say you go to a general male/gay type blog where ther are pictures of georgeous guys who for the most part are of a legal age but...but scattered randomly in between these you see thumnbails images that are borderline or seem somewhat risky or your unsure of and you avoid these images and only navigate through to the ones that are of a legal age, can the fact that these small thumnails appeared on the page be a problem even though you havent actually enlarged or downloaded them and only gone directly to the ones that are safe ?

If you were being monitored do you think that the people monitoring recognise that you are infact careful and avoid these images or is it likely they wouldnt care and use that as an oppurtunity to try and frame you as it seems corrupted members of society look for excuses regardles sof any illegal activity.