Actually I have come out to a few people friends and family and that is the term that I used when I was explaining my situation. And I use it in the christian counseling also. But I said my attraction to boys not (BA). If there was going to be a term to use and make new in society for us I would vote for that one. I agree with you about the word lover and what that word carries, it is OK to use in a forum like this though. I think it's a good idea I just wonder if we could get that term to start being used and accepted in our own forums and society though. (My thoughts)

Blessings

Blaze