Again I say, maybe but...there is a difference between wanting to do something and thinking about or fantasizing about it. I will admit that I think about having sex with boys, and yes there are times when it turns inot out and out fantasy, in which case I take matters at hand and take care of the problem. But do I allow it to get to the point where I want to do it so bad that I start thinking about ways that I can actually carry it out? No I do not.

Yes, in a way your origional statement was correct, but some of us might tend to get a tad upset about having it rubbed in our faces (so to speak) when we work hard at living our lives in a way that we believe society would accept. I hope you can understand this, that there are some Boylovers/Pedophiles who live thier lives without sex by thier own choosing; because they feel it is the right way to live. Yes they still have sexual feelings and still think about it like everyone else, but they decide not to act on it. Is this an easy way of life...I don't know, it's not bad. I've been doing it for years and have no regrets, in fact, in some ways it helps me to be closer to God.