For me it's about having child friends as part of a community in which people of all ages are interacting.

I'm never alone with other people's kids. This is my own choice. I make this choice not because I feel I'd do anything inappropriate, but I am fairly out and I don't ever want to be accused of doing something I didn't do. So it's for my own protection really.

I have a great time with my young friends. We chat, play, pray, go swimming, sing, enjoy meals... do all the things that one does in a church community. It is very fulfilling and full of love.

Like any man, I struggle with sexual attraction issues with people in my community. But love and integrity is about subduing the unholy parts of a relationship and preserving and strengthening the pure and good parts.

Blessings
Cat.