Hi Cat,

I take none of that personally, as a matter of fact I respect your advice and agree with it. Believe me this is not the norm for me I do exactly what you advise, I just kind of lost it because his dad has been especially mean to him lately. I have already apologized to his dad and all is ok on that front now. I also told my syf on the way to the fair that I was wrong for what I did and that he needs to love and respect his dad for who he is, we had a long talk about respect and authority. I am always trying to find things we can do where we can include his father, I want them to be close to each other. You are wrong about to get what want though, his wife wants to leave her husband but she cant, if she had the money she would. And I have the money to make that happen but I would never break up a family and believe me I would love for her to find a kind hearted man who loves kids. He hates kids and treats them like crap. So I pray for him instead and trust in the Lord to change his heart. Because I know that the Lord gave this boy to him for a reason and I know I have to respect that. My syf and I have had many talks about hid dad, and I have never had one bad thing to
say about his dad, I point out the good in him and give him ideas to try out for him to have a closer relationship with his dad. I really don't want to be his dad, just his friend.

Anyway thanks for your concern and your advice, I can tell that you really
care and that means a lot to me. Like I said I agree with everything you had to say and am glad you did. You can give me advice any time even if it seems a little harsh, I respect that.

With much Love in Christ

God Bless

Blaze