Re: My SYF and some problems

Blaze, Blaze, Blaze! Be CAREFUL BRO! This guy you are ticking off is your SYF's father! He has legal power over this boy. If he gets angry at you he has it in his power to prevent you from seeing your SYF and what would you do then! I think you did a good thing for the kid in terms of taking him out... but you had to disrespect and humiliate his father to achieve it. Even if his father is an ASS the boy will be sucking identity off the guy like crazy and a humiliation for the dad is a humiliation for the son. I think it would have been far better for you to teach the kid to honor his father than to defy and humiliate and disrespect him. And then to cut his balls off in front of his mother...Dude! It seems to me that you are siding with the mother to get what you want... what you think is best for your SYF but mate, its not your place. You can't be his dad. I think its wrong for you to usurp his dad and its wrong for you to encourage your SYF to do so. This kid has to live with this father for his whole life. He needs to learn to love his father practically even if his father doesn't deserve it or respect it. The authority of a parent comes from God. If the guy doesn't handle it well then he will answer to God for that. If the guy is abusing the child, then by all means take measures to get him to a safe place, but I encourage you to teach your SYF some patience and longsuffering and faithfulness where he will need it (ie: in his family). Finally, this kid will be a rebellious teenager soon enough. The last thing you want to do is teach him to disrespect authority just because he's missing out on some fun thing he wants to do. Blaze, I trust you know that I have great respect for you and that this is written with deep concern and (dare I claim it) love for you. Much Blessings brother Cat.