hang on . . .abuse is the word which makes simply sexual activity sound far worse than it actually is. A 13 year old and an 11 year old together is not sexual abuse: it is just sexual activity. Calling it abuse is probably more wrong than the sexual activity . . . experimenting when you are young is something I wish I had done because it gets it out of the system. At age 52, believe me, I know the consequences of not doing this.