Hi Cat,

I completely agree with this, I am still working out issues with my wife but we disagree about money more than the bl issue. On #3 what the heck is she thinking! If my wife told me that I would laugh in her face, NO WAY she does need to understand you and your feelings! I have been going to Christian counseling for a while now and on the masturbation issue, so I have been told, over 95% of the males in the USA do this. And yes even in the Church, does that make it right or wrong? That is a personal decision and between you and God! All I can tell you is that my wife has not put any restrictions on me except for #1 and I think that is reasonable! I pray she will be realistic and trust you enough to know that you can responsibly interact with boys at any time, in public or when alone with them. I continue to pray for you and your family!

God Bless

Blaze