"He'll probably do anything you say because you pay attention to him. Don't take advantage of that for your own gain. You say you love him? Prove it."

What a bold thing to say. And im not partucularly fond of bold comments. You make it sound like im tricking or seducing him. May i suggest better choice of words for the next piece of attempted advice? This kid doesn't crave attention, at least not from me. I gave it to him, he didn't have to ask. And i have more than provided enough to prove that i love this kid. Don't ever question what i love. Thats going to start a rukus.