A boylover with a sexual attraction to a child is one of the worst substitutes for a father - instead of thinking of yourself think of the lifetime damage to the boy should you weaken under temptation and have sexual relations with him. If you are a glutton stay away from the bakery.
Why is plain common sense so uncommon. As well as the weakness of our sinful nature, we have an enemy, Satan, who loves to destroy our God-given sexuality by tempting us into unnatural sexual activity.