In running away from potential sexual activity I don't have to run away from my YF.

I feel very confident that I won't be sexual with my YF. I even go out of my way to avoid situations that would even LOOK suspitious to others. For instance I don't spend time alone with my YF even though I know that I wouldn't be likely to make any moves on him even if I did.

I agree with you 100% that IF spending time with a boy was likely to incline you to sexing him then it should be avoided. But I don't agree that this is always so. And like Rainboy and others have stated... I find loving a boy in a real relationship makes the sexual aspects of my attractions much LESS dominate than avoiding him would do.

Blessings
Cat.