Christian BoyLove Forum #66761
As I said, we all need to find the right boundaries for ourselves. One of the challenges of being a Christian is that we don't have a simple set of rules that can be applied to us all in things like this; an example of this is dealing with alcohol. For some people they need to avoid it totally. For others it's something they are relaxed to drink in socially appropriate amounts. If you are currently so vulnerable in this area, then you are probably wise to keep a more significant distance than some of the rest of us need to. We all need to work towards living an abundant life; precisely what that looks like for us, within the overall commands of God, will vary. Seek what God is saying is good for you now. And work on building a life in other areas so that this isn't THE BIG THING in your life all the time.