Thanks a Lot for following up.
I felt a lot better after reading and posting here.
All those comments and suggestions were very invaluable.

I don't know if read the latest post, but if you haven't then here it is.
http://boychat.org/messages/1378102.htm

If you have then, as of now I feeling a lot better and thinking a lot clearer unlike the last few days when I have been crying myself to sleep like a baby.

I will indeed keep posting further progress and developments in anything at all happens.