Personally I'm 100% convinced that being a BL was part of God's will for my life.

I think everything that happens is part of His sovereign will. In my understanding nothing is outside of God's control. As Isaiah says of Him, "I form the light, I create the darkness". I take that to mean that everything ... good or bad as we may perceive it... is under His control.

Further I would add that, since God desires good things for us (Jer 29:11*), He intends to use my sexuality to bring good things about in my life.

Blessings
Cat.

*Jer 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.