You know if this were a physical place and we were just talking to one another, that whole thing we went through probably wouldn't have happened at all. And I might not have used the words that I chose to use, either. Like you said, we must be very careful about what we say (and I would add, "and how we say it"). Unfortunately, for me anyway, sometimes I almost feel like I am actually in a place where I can just relax and say what is on my mind any way I like. As if I were in the home of really good old friends who know me very well. Although there are some people here who DO know me fairly well, there are also people who do not and also people who come here whom we don't know about at all because they do not post. This is a good forum but it does have it's limitations which just can't be helped. But what can help is if we all understand that we will at times make mistakes and if we can be understanding and patient with those who do.