Homosexuals comprise slightly less than 5% of males and lesbians about 4% of females, according to Masters and Johnson and the HART Report.
I have not seen any reports, which attempt to establish same-gender attraction with or without sexual activity. Paedophiles, ephebephiles, etc..tend to more secretive and therefore possibly harder to survey accurately.
A Christian in name who is not passionate about Jesus is an oxymoron. Perhaps you have never been born again and therefore have no spiritual awakening in your heart.
The natural man does not receive the things of God because they are spiritual and he/she is natural and carnal.
The perfect man is Jesus and all other perceptions and idealisations are poor understandings.
I am not sure if this will enlighten you, anger you or confuse you - it is offered sincerely.