We know that such contact is not inherently harmful and that any harm is the result of societal pressure.

We don't know that at all. That is just your belief. I assume you base this belief on anecdotal evidence and studies, but such evidence is far from complete. I can agree that sexual contact with a boy is not ALWAYS harmful to the boy, and I can also agree that society's reaction to said behavior can be and often is the source of SOME of the harm that can occur. But I think there is sufficient evidence that shows that the sexual contact itself can be harmful to a boy's psych, not just societal pressure or norms.

I'm surprised you kind of just threw that statement out there like it was some proven fact, like gravity.

Dakota