I'm with Reason Filled.

I believe that you ARE this way as part of the plan.
I believe that there's pretty much no chaning it.
I believe that God loves and Accepts you just the way you are.
I beleive that God wants you to be in loving relationships with other people.

But I also beleive that if you are going to enjoy sex it will be with either your wife or your hand and that every other desire must be submitted lovingly to holiness.

Blessings
Cat.