I am certain of this. Now if I saw a ton of opposite evidence I would consider other points of view but I have yet to see that or hear some real good arguments of it.

YOU may have certain issues with your sexuality or may not. This does not mean that it is true for everyone.

I have not met in person as many BLs as some people I know but the number is a little over 20. I know other BLs and GLs who I have not met in person. Some of those people are considerably older than me and have known many BLs over the year and have much experience with these types of questions. I am not the longest running person on BL boards here or otherwise but I have been around for over 5yrs. My point is that I may not be the best most researched greatest person qualified, whatever, person to say this but in all my experience there are commonalities about BLs sexualities but not about their backgrounds, personalities, or anything else like that.

How does your story relate to you being a BL?

Are you saying that if you were not involved in the gay community you would not be a BL?

I'm assuming you were at least a mid to late teenager when you got involved in your local gay community. Does that mean you think people's sexual orientation can change at such a late age?

Gs