I agree with Eldad in describing BL as a disability.

And I don't think it's anywhere near calling us Monsters.... that is something entierely different.

Being a BL makes life more than just challenging or difficult.
If we completely embraced who we are as BLs then we would have to approve the sexual component at some level.

I guess the closest we could come to that as very liberal Christians would be to approve man/boy marriages. But even then I have the problem that in few years nature will take it's course and my beautiful boy bride will grow up into a man and I'll not be attracted to him anymore.... that alone is enough to = disability to me.

Even if we accept that being a BL is not a bad thing of itself we still have to deny ourselves a fulfilling open sexual relationship because of the law which would cast us into jail if we lived that out... not being able to do what you believe is right = disability to me.

Even if we accept that being a BL is not a bad thing of itself and we also believe that acting in any way sexual with a boy is against God's will for us then we still have to deny our sexual desires or at the very least seek to fullfill them with a partner to whom we are not attracted... (eg: a wife)... and believe me THAT is a disablity!

I've seen a doco about deaf people who claim defiantly that they are NOT disabled and get very upset when people try and tell them they are... I don't want to be so closed minded in my self-acceptance.
I believe I am as God intends me to be... and that includes being a Boylover... I can accept this and even enjoy the blessings that come with it.... but I know I'm disabled... and frankly... I'm ok with that.

Blessings
Cat.