I have a problem with this big time. For the same reason I have a problem when someone says that BL=monster.

There is nothing inherently morally wrong with being a BL. There are immoral things you can do related to being a BL but that is true of all people no matter your sexuality.

Being a BL does make a life challenging in many ways but it does not make us disabled and we do not have a psychiatric disability either.

Godspell