Although I have heard about cases where consentual sex between a man and a minor boy turned out to be just fine later on in thier lives, I am still of the persuasion that it is better not to do it. I had a YF with whom I was very close and although I am sure we could have taken our relationship into the sexual level, because of me we did not. I didn't want to go there for a variety of reasons, not the least of which is because it is illegal. We were so very close and our relationship was wonderful without it. In fact, I think it actually would have suffered if we had gotten that intimate. To this day I'm glad we didn't.

Chris