The members on boychat argue that as long as a child consents to sexual acts with an adult they will grow up normal and happy with their choice.

Acording to my logic however and thinking back to my very extremely curious and naive childhood I belive I could have easily been swayed into a sexual relationship with an adult during a dazed and confused period in my life, but in my late teen years when I actually became more aware of my interests and attractions I came to detest the idea of being touched in any sexual way by any adult. Not only is the idea disgusting to me it is also very repulsive in the sense of being a major turn off, not because ive been conditioned into thinking that way but more so the fact that my chemical brain attraction is turned off by adults who dont fit my ideal (yes im very superficial and shallow that way) so if I had been manipulated into consenting into a sexual act by adults in my younger years I would most definetly now without doubt be regreting it and feeling abused.

When I shared these views with the pedos on boychat they verbally abused me and failed to discuss the matter in depth, a few implied that I had no proof any child would feel abused later on in life if they consented as a child and it was more likely they would be happy. Believing that I could not be the only one feeling this way I began to do a search on abuse support forums to uncover the truth, because if the truth existed then the excuses they hide behind to support sex with children is infact very very damaging to society.

At first I showed them an article about Justin Berry, a 14 year old who consented to sexual acts with adults only to later sue these adults in court once he felt manipulated. The pedos on boy chat dismissed this saying that he was just American scum who had been conditioned into feeling that way. Correct me if im wrong but wether someone feels abused because they were conditioned or as a result of maturing and gaining experience does not change the fact that they still feel abused or make the abuse any less for that person.

It all comes down to wether the pedos on boychat care!! and if you really care about boys then it should matter wether they feel abused or not! If they dont care enough that someone will feel abused later in life then they should not hide behind the excuse that a child will grow up normal and happy with their choices as long as they consent. If they do however care then the issues I raised are very valid and should be considered.

But not even one single person considered what I had to say, Instead I was sworn at and told things like "" do your mother with a cucumber and a carrot by both orifices at once." and "a pussy homo, a fucking meeky faggot" and "go kill yourself, hang yourself ona tree and put it on youtube so we can have a good laugh" by Santi and jd420 they also made further commenst like "I believe it's important to be responsive to a newborn's input when fondling their genitalia" and "rub or drink boyjuice on your skin to look youthful".

The webmaster and the cogs there allowed me to get verbally abused with all sorts of derogatory remarks and did nothing to intervene but soon as I reteliated back to those who swore at me I was warned by the cogs.One of the cogs even commeneted back to me saying "You have some serious issues. Before you go off on a holy crusade, check out what has happened to other self-hating pedophiles. It's not a happy fate."

I was called an anti in BC for disagreeng with sex with children, and this clearly shows that despite being a boylover and aprecitaing boys the fact that I diagree with having sex with them and choose to be celibate makes me an anti to those in Boychat. So there fore their definition of a pedophile is someone who has sex with children seeng as everyone who disgarees is anti. One even suggested that I made a up fictional character and plotted the whole discussion as he had such a hard time beliveing any real BL would oppose sex with children. Their under the impression that they have to embrace and fulfill every aspect of their desire to be able to self accept and live happily with themselves and anyone who shows restraint is an anti and is self loathing, they cant grasp the concept that one can still be self content and feel proud in showing restraint, and the wrong views in BC are harming society and labelling all BL to be like them.

Honestly, how can the pedos on boychat believe that a child has to be forced or tied down and forcefully raped to feel abused or molested, and they disregard the fact manipulating a childs naive, inexperinced, curious nature to their favour does not cause abuse!

They choose to blindly argue, which made me realise they can not be reasoned with, they fail at logic, compassion, empathy and all the things that prevent people being a dangeour to society. If one can not consider the future implications and harm of their behaviour on a child who consents out of ignorance then those peoples delusional pyschotic wiews are harmful.

I later posted on Abuse Support Forums, not because I needed convincing but more so to see how wrong the pedos on boychat are, I asked about wether consent as a child is enough to for those to feel happy and avoid feelings of abuse. There were similar responses, one of which that said "Well, as a child I too consented. Forty five years later and I'm still dealing with the fallout of my 'happy' choice." Note; the use of the word "happy" is sarcastic.

I found most of the people on abuse forums were too distressed to speak out in detail and such questions caused what was called a bad "trigger". I felt after my intial posts not to cause them any further stress by suggesting they confront the pedos on boychat about their consent, yet had they posted it would have been interesting to see what bullshit the BC members would come out with.

Even if I had all the people on the abuse forums who consented to sex as a a child speak out on boychat about feeling abused I dont think it would make any difference because only the truth can be heard by those who listen and the majority on boychat are deaf, blind to the reality and their so consumed by their desires and they will argue to justify their excuses to their grave. They are a lost cause and their blind justification of their behaviour is causing children and society harm because they fail to see the truth and dont want to accept it!

If any of you here share or agree with their views in regard to sex with children being fine as long as they consent then I have a question for you's.... If it was proven that this was true and if abuse victims spoke out saying they are feeling harmed, molested and abused despite their consent as a child would yous revaluate your beliefs and stop trying to justify it as a major excuse?

I can ask this here , because the people here appear to be more civil, but that question on boychat gets met with derogatory remarks instead.

If any of them really cared they would consider the fact that whilst there are those who can grow up normal and happy there are also those who end up feeling abused as a result of their consent even if it is a smaller percentage the fact that it exists is good enough of a concern for anyone who truly cares about boys to be cautious enough and a good reason for them choose not to gamble with their emotional wellbeing.

Visiting BC and seeng the people there for what they really are made me even more motivated than ever to fight to protect children from abuse and harm from people like that. I went to BC thinking I would find a place where I feel accepted in but instead found out how much I detest an loath the people there and they make me feel even better about being celibate as I wish in no way to be associated with them and hope to God I never end up as delusional as them where I have to resort to swearing at people who oppose my views because Im too twisted to actually even justify my own choice to myself.

PS> There was 1 or 2 people on boychat that expresed they shared my views but for the majority who spoke out (if you can call verbal abuse speaking) it was not the cases so my discussion about BC is based on the majority there!