Hi Cat,

This is just my opinion but I think loosing everything you hold dear and love over one part of your life with your wife, well maybe the sacrifice may be worth it. Could that be a Godly path? I think it might be, for sacrifice of ones self for another for whom you love and all the others that it will affect is a selfless act. When Jesus took our sin on the Cross I can't even began to understand what he went through, but I do know it was the biggest sacrifice that has ever been. And an example we are to follow, pick up or carry our cross daily. This might be a cross you need to carry. I know you are not Jesus! And I do not know if it is for you or not, but I believe it should be something you should consider. I say all of this with the greatest LOVE for you. I think you know I have pretty much the same feelings so I do know how hard this would be. I am going to have to face the same kind of decision, I don,t think my marriage will remain sexless forever, and I am not sure how I will handle it. I continue to pray for you and your family.

With much love in Christ

God Bless

Blaze