Thanks for mentioning me here.

For my YF, I think that he is maturing rather late, and using his anger and sexual relationship with his Girlfriend to compensate for this.
He does love me, but he wonders why other boys his age don't have a friend as close to him as I am.
He thinks that I baby him a lot, and he feels a little frustrated by this.
He wants to be a big man, yet inside he still is a kid, and almost always comes back to me.

Though he is tall, he looks very... 'soft' for is age.
People joke that he looks like a Girl, with his soft face and thin frame.
As I explained in my little 'Diary' I was writing, he was a very quiet kid but used anger and acting out for attention.
He keeps trying to prove himself to his friends.

I find a good way to connect to him, is to talk to him about these things.
I ask him why he acts out and how he feels about himself, and he likes to talk about it.
We connect so well, because we trust each-other with so much.
Deep personal feelings and memories, we share.
I believe I am the only person to actually talk to him about these things, that is why I am special to him.

I've always thought it was a little strange that my YF was a little older than most YFs I have heard about here.
He is now 14, 15 in March.
Need to find something for his B'Day!

I think like all boys in and entering puberty, there will always be mood swings.
Sometimes, enough to really upset him and have him say something nasty.
Whenever he gets upset, he usually isolates himself from everyone and not talk, not even to his girlfriend.
But ALWAYS, I am the first person he comes to when he wants to figure it out.

I know that all YFs grow up, and I cherish each day I spend with him.
I rarely get to see him much, he spends most his time with his Girlfriend or at school. And his parents have stopped him using MSN because he was fighting someone.
So, I call him or Text Message him whenever, and we usually meet up on chat rooms online.

Sorry, I can't stop talking about him!

I think the best way is to be open with him.
Just tell him that you were concerned that he wasn't doing well.
He still loves you, but I think that if you let him know you are concerned and care about his feelings, it could well bring you two even closer together.

Usually when I find the source of the problem, I help him overcome it.
Though, I wasn't confident that I could help him when he asked me to be a little less caring, lol.

It works for my Young Friend.
And I think that if I wasn't, We may not even be together today.
He relies of me for that support and attention.

Good luck, I hope he feels better.
I will write a little entry in my 'Diary' later, exciting news.