"What is your minimum age range?"

I am attracted to boy 5-13. Basically post toddler to pre puberty. Same age range for girls though the attraction is much much weaker. An extremely very low amount of adults of both genders and that is more aestitic like that is a nice looking guy/woman.

"The only reason I ask is because if you're 30 and your age range is 16 or so, I can kinda understand that."

Heh you didn't ask how old I am and your example was about age of a 30 & 16yr old. :p I am in my 20s but I will not get more specific than that, I have alot to lose if I am outed as others have been.

"One poster said that as BL's grow older their age range grows older, is this true for many BL or just some of them?"

Just some. Everyone's sexuality is different.

"Why can't BL's be in a committed relationship with someone else? I mean, why did you have to break up with your lady? I know that if she found out that she would probably freak out, but isn't there someone out there for you that would understand, maybe even be an outlet for your thoughts?"

sigh my past reationship. I am not romantically attracted to adults. Well so little that it is almost null. To be blunt I cannot have sexual relations with women, I tried and it did not work. Maybe mayeb with a man but can't say I know for sure. It would end up being a platonic marriage or I would always be pretending she is a boy and that would not be fair to her.

The other thing you hit on. 99% of adults, male or female, would majorly freak out. It would be very bad. A very very few pedophiles can find an adult partner who does not freak out but it's not common. Someone who could give you an even better response is Cat who is currently married.

The best relationship that I see for myself is if I have a yf who I am close to and attracted to. We are completely platonic. He ends up being gay. When he is an adult we get married or something like that. This could possibly work because I have found that pedophiles are sometimes attracted to adults that they were attracted to as children.
This might freak some people out but it could work. Don't read something weird between the lines. I don't mean any kind of coercion or sex before it is legal/moral. I mean two people with an age difference who were friends who became a couple.

You are the new/differnt person here in our place. We are not the minority here you are and we have been answering your questions and baring ourselves out for you. This is not a bad thing and I'm enjoying it. If people have questions for you are you willing to also answer them honestly?